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I saw out there words like confidence and self-love and feminine and masculine being thrown around - yet, not ONE single thing I read (and I read everything I could find) told me HOW to GET that confidence, femininity and self-love. So I started cataloging and writing down everything Id done to bring my husband closer in every way. I included everything Id ever read that was helpful, and added my personal, step-by-step How to the generalized concepts and psychology I saw. Rori Raye Books Free Workshop ForI printed it up, did a free workshop for my friends, and found myself developing new Hows as I taught from what Id written. Rori Raye Books Full Coaching ClientI figured out the internet Before I knew it, I had a book to offer, a weekend workshop filled, a full coaching client practice, and - Id figured out the internet. Steve Warwick, a friend from a networking group Id joined, was a computer, marketing, website design genius - and he and I bonded as best friends forever under the nerd banner and he helped me to grow my reach and my brand. Rori Raye Books How To Connect MyI discovered I could learn to code, I could learn how things worked, how things flowed from one webpage to another, how to connect my writing from one page to another, and from one place on the internet to another. This was when myspace was the only game in town, and Facebook was not even a glimmer. I had ads running to 60 different pages, I was writing all day long - and being read - A LOT (for example one million views on ezine articles) My dream of being a writer, the dream Id put away in a drawer to support my first husbands dream of being a writer - became real. My book, Have The Relationship You Want, sold copies every day. I coined the name Modern Siren, and began to define everything I was talking about, all the amazing things happening with my clients and readers every day with this completely feminine-centric interpretation of the Siren legend. So - if what youve read in one of my blog or Facebook posts sounds like anti-feminist drivel to you, if it sounds like Im about being demure and coy and sweet and strategic with men - I want you to know its completely the opposite. And, since authentic is one of the most overused words in all of self-help on the internet and in bookstores - The Rori Raye Modern Siren Method is about the HOW of being authentically you. And - were all different Some of us have hugely painful backgrounds, with years and years of experiential training constantly thinking and doing everything based on that pain. ![]() If we cant find our deepest, most passionate feelings about ourselves and our lives - even in general ways - how can we just be authentic Most of us cannot ever even know who we truly are We are so MANY things Every moment is a new moment, and we are new IN it. So - my take on authenticity is not some general realness concept - its about finding the truth for you in every single moment - connecting with THAT, and then SPEAKING it, out loud, to anyone near you who is actually interacting with you. All of a sudden - authenticity takes on several other aspects. One is fear. Fear comes up, because speaking what were truly experiencing and feeling in any moment is a terrifying, risky move for almost all of us women. Weve been hugely punished throughout time for being mouthy, or simply wanting the wrong things. And so we tend to want to sit back in the shadows and get the lay of the land before we say our truth - OR - we rebel against that and just spit out whatever comes up for us at any moment.
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